The safety and wellbeing of every child is the highest priority. This checklist will help you ask the right questions, know what to look for during centre visits, and support your child’s personal and emotional safety to ensure your chosen childcare centre offers a safe, nurturing experience for your little one. 

Questions to Ask Prospective Childcare Centres

Security & Access:

Is the centre secure?

Ask about sign-in/out procedures and entry controls. For example, does the centre use PIN-coded entry or other systems to ensure only authorized caregivers can pick up your child? A quality centre will have strict protocols like secure doors/gates and verified pick-up.  

At Little Scholars, safety is paramount – all centres are PIN-access only, and only pre-authorised parents/guardians can drop off and collect children.  

Hygiene & Illness Policies:

What are your hygiene practices and sick child policies?

Inquire how often toys, surfaces, and bathrooms are cleaned and how educators promote handwashing for children. Also ask about policies for managing illness (e.g. when children are sent home with fevers and how illness outbreaks are communicated). Top centres maintain rigorous cleanliness routines – e.g. frequent handwashing, sanitising of toys and surfaces, and proactive illness prevention measures to keep everyone healthy.

Supervision & Staffing:

How do you ensure proper supervision and ratios?

Verify that the centre meets or exceeds the legal educator-to-child ratios at all times, and ask how they maintain active supervision. Educators should be actively engaged, not just present – meaning they are constantly watching, listening and interacting with children to anticipate and prevent issues.  

Quality providers follow the National Quality Framework (NQF) requirements for ratios and often position staff strategically (indoors and outdoors) so every child is visible and supported. Little Scholars, for instance, adheres to NQF educator-to-child ratios at all times to ensure attentive care. 

Educator Training & Child Protection:

What are your staff vetting and child protection practices?

Ask if all staff (including assistants, casuals and volunteers) are trained in child protection and mandatory reporting of any harm. A reputable centre should have a formal child protection policy (ideally accessible on their website) and regularly train staff to recognize and respond to signs of abuse or neglect. Inquire about staff background checks beyond the mandatory Working With Children Check – for example, do they conduct thorough reference checks and ongoing screening to ensure only suitable people work with kids? Also ask if the centre has policies to prevent one-on-one isolated interactions.

Finally, find out if there is a designated Child Safety Officer or contact person whom children, staff or parents can approach with concerns – this shows the centre takes child protection seriously.

Emergency Procedures & First Aid:

How do you handle emergencies and accidents?

A good centre should have clear emergency response plans (for fires, evacuations, lockdowns, etc.) and conduct regular drills. Ask how often they practice fire/evacuation drills and how they make these drills child-friendly (some centres use mascots or games to teach emergency routines in a non-scary way). Verify that multiple staff members are certified in first aid, CPR, and anaphylaxis management at all times, and ask about the procedure if a child is injured or unwell (Do they have first aid kits readily available? Will they call you immediately? How do they record and report incidents?).

Health (Allergies & Medical Needs):

How do you manage children’s health needs, like allergies or medications?

If your child has any allergy, asthma or other medical condition, ask what precautions and protocols the centre has. Do they have individual medical management plans and risk minimisation strategies for each child with allergies/medical needs? Leading centres use tools like allergy-aware placemats or ID cards and work with families to create detailed care plans (including emergency action plans for allergic reactions). You should also ask about food safety: is the centre nut-free or egg-free if needed? Knowing that a centre takes nutrition and allergies seriously – with strict food safety guidelines and clear communication about dietary needs – will give you peace of mind.  

Emotional Wellbeing & Guidance:

How do educators support children’s emotional safety and behaviour?

Ask about the centre’s approach to guidance and discipline.. For example, how do they comfort a distressed child or handle biting, tantrums or conflict between kids? Listen for answers that highlight emotional support and redirection. Caregivers should be attuned to each child’s feelings – trained to spot signs of anxiety, tiredness or frustration – and respond with care. It’s a good sign if the centre mentions nurturing each child’s sense of belonging and having strategies for helping children feel secure (such as key educators for each child, cozy quiet areas for children to retreat to, etc.). Also, ask if they have programs or curriculum aspects that build children’s social and emotional skills. An environment where children are treated with respect and their feelings are acknowledged is crucial for emotional safety. 

Cleanliness & Safety of Environment:

How do you maintain a safe physical environment?

Inquire about how often the facilities and equipment are inspected or maintained. Does the centre conduct regular safety audits or daily hazard checks on playgrounds and classrooms? A great centre will have a schedule for routine cleaning and safety inspections. Also consider asking about sun safety policies – in Australia, centres should have a SunSmart policy (e.g. requiring hats and sunscreen for outdoor play and providing shaded areas). A diligent centre will be proud to discuss their procedures for things like safe sleep (for babies), sun protection, and general workplace health and safety compliance. 

Things to Observe During Childcare Centre Visits

When you tour a prospective childcare centre, use your eyes and instincts. Here are key safety indicators to look for on your visit: 

Clean, Hygienic Facilities:

Check that the centre looks and smells clean. Floors, surfaces, toys, and bathrooms should be well-maintained and sanitary. Look for evidence of regular cleaning – e.g. educators wiping down tables, a clean nappy-changing area (with gloves and sanitiser), and children being guided to wash hands (especially after toileting or before meals). A centre that prioritises hygiene will have protocols visibly in action (like frequent handwashing and toy sanitisation) to reduce germs. Trust your nose – a fresh, clean environment (with proper diaper disposal and ventilation) indicates good hygiene practices. 

Educator–Child Interactions:

Pay attention to how staff interact with the children in their care. Are the educators warm, attentive, and engaged on the children’s level? You should see caregivers who are actively involved in activities – chatting with kids, comforting them as needed, and actively supervising. Look for active supervision – educators scanning the room and playground, frequently counting children, and positioning themselves so they can see all kids. Positive, caring interactions (smiles, gentle tones, educators down at eye level with kids) also foster an emotionally safe atmosphere for your child.

Happy, Well-Cared-for Children:

The children at the centre should appear happy and comfortable. During your visit, note the children’s mood and engagement: are most kids actively playing or calmly involved in activities? It’s normal to see an upset child occasionally, but in a quality centre educators will address it promptly with comfort. If you see lots of crying or distressed children without comfort, that’s a concern. Ideally, you’ll get the sense that children are enjoying their day and are well cared for – smiling, laughing, or focused on play, with educators close by for support. A cheerful, relaxed vibe among the children is a great sign.

Cleanliness & Safety of Play Areas:

 As you tour, inspect the classrooms and playground for potential safety hazards. Cleanliness is one aspect, but also check safety details: are play equipment and toys in good repair? Are there child-safe features like socket covers, secure baby gates on stairs, and locked cupboards for chemicals? In the outdoor area, look for soft-fall surfaces under climbing equipment, sturdy fencing around the perimeter, and shade covers or trees for sun protection. If you can, note whether emergency information (like evacuation plans and fire extinguishers) is visible – many centres post evacuation diagrams in each room. These little details show that the centre proactively maintains a safe environment for children to explore. 

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Staff Teamwork and Attentiveness:

Observe the staffing on the day – does it appear they have enough educators in each room, and are they attentive? You might do a quick headcount of children vs. staff in a room to see if it aligns with expected ratios for that age group. Beyond numbers, look at how the team operates: are they communicating with each other about supervision (for example, one says “I’m stepping away to grab more art supplies” and another covers? Are they on the move, scanning and engaging, rather than all clustered together? High-quality centres foster a culture of vigilant supervision – educators should look alert and involved. If you visit during a transition (like lunchtime or nap time), notice if routines seem calm and well-managed (this reflects good training and adequate staffing). A smoothly run classroom with attentive staff indicates your child will be well supervised and safe. 

Overall Atmosphere:

Trust your gut on the overall feel. A centre that is open, welcoming, and transparent with parents will make you feel at ease during the visit. Notice if the director or educators willingly discuss safety topics and proudly show you around every area. Do you see evidence of a positive culture, like children’s artwork on the walls, safety posters, or a friendly rapport between staff and families at pick-up time? Little things like educators greeting children at drop-off or reminding them “Hat on for outside, let’s be SunSmart!” show a caring, safety-conscious environment.

In short, you want to see that what the centre says about safety in their policies is truly happening day-to-day: clean and secure facilities, engaged and loving caregivers, and children who appear secure and happy 

(During your visit, consider bringing this checklist along. Many parents also find it helpful to take notes right after each tour, while impressions are fresh.) 

Tips to Help Your Child with Personal Safety and Emotional Security at Childcare

Choosing a great centre is only part of keeping your child safe – as parents, we also play a big role in preparing children with the skills and confidence they need. Here are some tips to empower your child and foster a sense of security as they start childcare: 

Teach and Reinforce Personal Safety Rules:

Even from toddler age, begin teaching your child simple personal safety concepts in a non-scary way. For example, Bravehearts recommends three “body safety” rules every child should know: 

  1. “We all have the right to feel safe with people.” – No one should make them feel unsafe or uncomfortable; 
  2. It’s OK to say ‘NO’ if you feel unsafe or unsure.” – They can refuse hugs, touches, or games that don’t feel right;
  3. “Nothing is so yucky that you can’t tell someone about it.” – Emphasize that they should always tell a trusted adult if anything or anyone makes them feel scared, yucky or confused, and they won’t get in trouble for speaking up.

By reinforcing these messages regularly, you help your child understand their rights and feel confident to assert themselves. Role-play scenarios with toys (“What if someone at childcare does something that makes you uncomfortable?”) and practice using strong voices to say “No, stop!” – make it a game so your child feels proud and powerful using their safety voice. 

Use Correct Names & Discuss Boundaries:

From as early as preschool age, teach your child the proper names for all their body parts, including private parts, and talk about body boundaries. This normalises their understanding and removes shame or secrecy. Let them know that their private parts are private – no one should touch them except perhaps a doctor or caregiver helping with hygiene, and even then, it should be only in appropriate ways. Explain that safe touches (like helping with a nappy change or a gentle check-up by a doctor – and only with permission) are different from unsafe touches (any touch meant to hurt or that makes them feel bad). Encourage them that it’s always okay to say “No” or move away if someone’s touch or play makes them uncomfortable, and to tell a teacher or tell you. Keeping these talks calm and factual (not scary) will help your child feel comfortable asking questions.

By having ongoing, open conversations, you empower your child to understand consent and know that they can always come to you with anything.

Identify “Safe People” and Encourage Open Communication:

Help your child know who their trusted adults are, both at childcare and at home. At Little Scholars, educators talk with children about identifying their “safe people” – those they can go to if they feel upset or unsafe. You can do this at home by explaining, “If you ever feel sad or scared at daycare, you can tell Miss Emily (for example) and they will help you. And you can always tell Mummy or Daddy anything when you get home.” Make it a habit each day to ask open-ended questions about their time at childcare. Listen calmly and attentively to whatever they share – this builds their confidence that they can talk to you about anything.

The goal is to ensure your child never feels like they have to keep a secret. Praise them for speaking up about their feelings, and reassure them that you and their educators are there to keep them safe. Creating this open channel early on increases the likelihood that your child will speak out if something is wrong.

Foster a Consistent Routine and Goodbye Ritual:

Young children feel safer when they know what to expect. You can help by establishing a predictable morning routine and a special goodbye ritual for drop-offs. For example, arrive with a few minutes to settle your child in, then do a consistent farewell (perhaps a hug, a high-five, or a “kiss and go” routine. Always say goodbye – as hard as it can be, avoid sneaking out when your child is distracted. A proper goodbye (even if it’s tearful) builds trust, because your child learns that you won’t disappear without warning and that you will come back. Educators also encourage this; they note that children handle separation better in the long run when they see you leave confidently after a loving goodbye. Over time, your little one will come to anticipate the routine and this consistency helps them feel in control and secure.

Use Comfort Items and Transitional Objects:

Check with your centre if your child can bring a comfort object from home, especially in the early weeks. A familiar lovey – like a favourite teddy, blanket, or even a family photo in their bag – can provide great emotional support during the day. Let your child know they can ask their teacher for their comfort item if they’re missing you. Many centres encourage this, as having a bit of “home” close by can soothe separation anxiety and help a child self-settle if they feel upset. Label the item with your child’s name and explain that it’s there whenever they need a hug or a reminder of home. Such comfort items often become a trusted buddy that helps your child feel safe in a new environment. 

Build a Positive Relationship with Educators:

Children take emotional cues from their parents. When they see you showing warmth and trust toward their educators, it boosts their own sense of security with those caregivers. Take a little time at drop-off or pick-up to greet and chat briefly with the staff (“Hello! How was her morning today?” or “He’s excited to show you his dinosaur shirt!”). If your child observes you smiling, sharing information and treating the teacher as a trusted friend, they’ll feel more comfortable in the educator’s care. This also models positive social interactions for your child. When your child sees that you and their carers are “on the same team,” it reinforces their confidence that they are in a safe place with grown-ups who care about them. 

Prepare Your Child for the Childcare Routine:

Help your little one know what to expect at childcare to reduce anxiety. You can role-play parts of the day – for example, pretend “school” at home: practice hanging up a backpack, singing a “hello” song, or taking turns with toys to mimic group play. Visit the centre’s orientation or “stay and play” sessions if offered, so your child can explore the new environment with you the first time. Reading books about starting daycare or looking at the centre’s photo boards of activities can also make the unknown more familiar.

The more your child knows the routine – snack, play, nap, etc. – the more secure and in control they will feel. If possible, align some home routines to childcare’s schedule (for instance, gradually adjust nap times to match). When children can predict what will happen next, it lowers their stress and helps them feel safe and confident in the new setting.

Reinforce Safety Skills at Home in Daily Life:

Make safety habits fun parts of your child’s day so they become second nature. For example, practice good hygiene habits together (e.g. washing hands before eating). Involve your child in safety routines like tidying up toys to keep pathways clear and holding hands when crossing the road. These little practices instil a general safety awareness.

Additionally, teach your child basic information like recognizing their name and your face, and as they get older, knowing your name and phone number – important in case of any separation (for a 4-5 year old, this can be done in a playful way). While childcare centres have robust safety measures, a child who knows how to follow rules like staying with the group, not running out doors, and telling an adult if they “don’t know where Mummy/Daddy is” will be even safer.

Stay Involved and Informed:

Lastly, maintain an ongoing dialogue with your childcare provider about safety. Ask about any safety education they provide to the kids (Little Scholars bring use programs like Bravehearts’ Ditto’s Keep Safe Adventure show to teach children about personal safety in an age-appropriate way). Reinforce those lessons at home – for example, if they learned about “yes and no feelings” or “private parts are private,” continue that conversation with your child so they see a consistent message.

Keep yourself informed on the centre’s policies (read the parent handbook sections on health, emergencies and child protection) and don’t hesitate to raise questions or suggestions. When parents and educators work as partners, children benefit. By showing your child that you trust the centre yet also staying actively engaged (volunteering at events, attending parent meetings on safety topics, etc.), you reinforce to your little one that they are safe and loved in the childcare environment. And that confidence – knowing the adults in their world are looking out for them – is perhaps the greatest gift of safety you can give your child.

To learn more about the child safety practices at Little Scholars School of Early Learning, visit this article. To book a tour of one of our 17 campuses across the Gold Coast, Brisbane, Redland Bay or Ipswich, call 1300 896 139 or visit our homepage here.

So you’ve decided to send your child to early learning – how exciting!

 For first-time parents, preparing for this new chapter involves more than just packing a backpack, it means understanding key essentials like the Child Care Subsidy (CCS). Navigating the CCS can seem daunting, but fear not! We’ve written a comprehensive guide to help demystify the process to help you understand how to maximise this support for your family’s benefit.

Here in this CCS explainer, we will lay out everything you need to know about and to apply for CCS, making it easier for you to support your child’s educational adventure.

What is the child care subsidy (CCS)?

Did you know you can apply for the Child Care Subsidy (CCS) before you enrol your child in early learning? 

Wait, what’s CCS? The Child Care subsidy is assistance to help families with the cost of childcare. Your child’s day in early learning is payable by a daily fee charged by the centre. The government may cover some of this fee, depending on your individual circumstances. This is what is referred to as the ‘subsidy’. 

You may be eligible for the Child Care Subsidy if you meet a number of factors. The Child Care Subsidy (CCS) changed in July 2024 for families earning under $533,280. The percentage of CCS will vary depending on your family’s income, and the income limit to receive the maximum allowed CCS will increase as well. For families whose income is up to $83,280, you could receive up to 90% from the CCS toward your child’s daily fee.

If you have two or more children in care, subsequent children are eligible for a higher subsidy than the first child. For families who earn a total income of up to $141,321, those children will receive 95% from CCS off your daily fee.

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Child Care Subsidy (CCS) Requirements

There are several requirements to qualify for the Child Care Subsidy. You may qualify if:

• You or your partner care for the child a minimum of two nights / fortnight

• You or your partner are responsible for childcare fees

• The child meets immunisation requirements

• You use an approved child care service like Little Scholars!

Once you’re ready for your child to go into early learning, you can apply for CCS!

How CCS works

The CCS works on three factors: 

• Your total combined family income

 • The service type. This can be long day care, or outside-hours care such as vacation care

 • How much ‘work-related’ activity you and your partner undertake each fortnight This includes paid work, volunteering, study and other activities as determined by education.gov.au. Job hunting, studying, starting a new business, volunteering and travel time – among others – are all eligible activities that will allow you to claim subsidised hours of care.

Our website has a handy calculator you can use to get an idea of how much CCS you’ll receive.

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When to apply for CCS

Apply for CCS via your MyGov Account, which is linked to Centrelink.

We recommend you do this as soon as you know when you might be sending your little one into early education and care, so it’s all set up and ready to go for your child’s first day. Don’t necessarily wait until you’ve enrolled with an early learning campus, because the entire process may take between four and six weeks, and if it’s not set up when you begin care, you may be paying full fees until it’s all complete.

Once your spot is booked in, confirm your Complying Written Agreement (CWA). When a CWA enrolment notice is created by the campus manager, there are two steps that need to be completed by the family:

1. You will be notified by email that the CWA is ready for you to agree to. A reminder will be sent via email should you not sign within 48 hours

2. Confirm your child’s government enrolment via MyGov. If you do not agree to the government enrolment, CCS cannot be paid.

Documents you may need

During your Child Care Subsidy claim via MyGov, expect Services Australia to request a variety of documents to verify your eligibility. These may include financial details like bank account information, tax file numbers, and insights into your assets. Academic records, work-related documents like tax returns or pay slips, details about your living situation, relationship specifics, any international residence proofs such as visas, documentation regarding your children, and any relevant medical records are also crucial. Now that you know what to expect, we’d suggest these are prepared in advance to streamline your claim process.

Finally, we know change can be scary, overwhelming or confusing, as much for our parents as our little ones. We’re here for you from the day you book your tour to the day your child finishes their last day of kindergarten. We can absolutely help you navigate the CCS and other documents you need to help your child become a little scholars. Reach out to your campus manager, admin or any of the leadership team for guidance or further questions.

Ready to explore Little Scholars?

Lara Suddards

Guest Blogger for Little Scholars
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Little Scholars is thrilled to welcome our guest blogger Lara Suddards. Lara is a mum of two small children and writer of her popular blog Mrs Lardeedah.com, which shares thoughtful ideas, advice and recommendations to grateful parents of fun things to do for the whole family.
Keep your cool this summer on the Gold Coast!

Are you looking for low-cost options to help the family stay cool this summer? The Gold Coast is home to a host of free or low-cost, family-friendly swimming spots that are sure to cool everyone off and provide hours of fun entertainment. Here are 8 spots to try this summer, from the northern most parts of the Gold Coast, right down to the southern Gold Coast.

Lions Park is located at the Jacobs Well Boat Ramp, and is a council-managed, netted swimming enclosure nearby the mouth of the Pimpama River. Here you will find a small sandy beach area with shade sails right up to the water’s edge, as well as barbeque and picnic facilities. This spot is great for younger children, as they can get a taste of the beach without large waves or long walks from the car to the water. Best visited at high tide, it can be a bit muddy at low tide.

Cabbage Tree Point

Cabbage Tree Point is a small town just near Jacobs Well, with a boat ramp, small beach and Charlie Hammel Park. This is a great spot for the family to spend a morning – set up a picnic blanket under the trees by the ship-themed playground and enjoy a swim at the small, sandy beach. Again, being on the river this is best visited at high tide, but enjoyable all day long.

Pimpama Sports Hub

The Pimpama Sports Hub is the northern Gold Coast’s largest aquatic centre, with a 50-metre outdoor swimming pool, a 25-metre indoor swimming pool, learn to swim pool and a hydrotherapy pool. The children’s splash pad is exceptional, with water fountains, bubbling brooks and water at ankle depth – it’s ideal for toddler and primary school aged children.

The Backyard Coomera

A splash pad might be the last thing you would expect to find at a shopping centre, but Westfield Coomera has one of the best free waterplay areas on the Gold Coast. Designed to resemble a billabong, waterways weave around interactive play stations where children can play with squirting frogs and jump across stepping stones. There are excellent change room facilities available and a café next door.

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Ian Dipple Lagoon is a great place to go for a swim. Protected by a large sandbank, this lagoon is wave free and perfect for little ones. There are shower and toilet facilities along the shore as well, making the pack up easy. In the evenings, the lagoon is floodlit, so it’s also a great spot for dinner time fish and chips.

Broadwater Parklands

The Broadwater Rockpools might be the most popular water play space on the Gold Coast, with plenty of water fountains and vibrant marine-themed equipment to play with. The water play is built to resemble a creek bed, and it works like tidal rockpools with the water receding every 5-10 minutes and then returning again. The Rockpools are watched over by lifeguards during opening hours and it’s completely free to play.

Evandale Lake

Located within the Home of the Arts precinct, Evandale Lake is a popular swimming spot for Gold Coasters. With a sandy beach around the outside, the lake has shallow edges but can be deceptively deep as you get further in. Families love to spend the day here, making the most of weekend food markets or a picnic lunch. There is a fun shaded playground by the lagoon too.

Palm Beach Aquatic Centre

The newest water play destination on the Gold Coast, the Palm Beach Aquatic Centre opened at the end of October and now has a 50m outdoor pool, 25m outdoor pool, indoor warm water program pool, 25m indoor learn to swim pool, and an outdoor splash pad. The splash pad at Palm Beach is fairly simple in design, with plenty of sprayers along the ground as well as a few water play towers and spinners, but it is made entirely of a rubber base which is absolutely ideal for those crawling or learning to walk!  

If you’re looking for early education and care for your young family, look no further than Little Scholars!  

We offer your child the very best facilities, resources and early educational, play-based programs available, which are underpinned by the early years learning framework. We also believe in fun, wide-ranging experiences so that children can begin to develop interests and passions of their own, from Bush Kinder adventures to our broad extracurricular program which includes swimming for our kindergarten children, we believe in keeping wonder and magic in childhood.

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Do you have a child who’s struggling with separation anxiety, especially at when being dropped off at school or early education? Perhaps they’re going through a developmental milestone that makes them need Mum or Dad a bit more than before. This is common starting around six months of age, peaks at 14-18 months, then can happen again when your child hits preschool and school-age. Or maybe your child is new to our service or has recently transitioned studios. The transition from home to early education is a milestone for both children and families.  Separation anxiety can even happen for children who’ve been in Little Scholars for a while. It can be hard moving into a new studio where she or he doesn’t yet know new routines, where things are kept and spending time with different educators with different ways of doing things can be overwhelming for the child. This is all normal.

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If you’re at a loss on how to make things easier on your little one, and yourself, we have some ideas.

Our tips for drop-off

  1. Don’t sneak away 🏃‍♂️ We know you’re trying to prevent tears, but sneaking away creates anxiety and mistrust for your child
  2. Keep goodbyes short 🙋‍♀️ There’s a saying that goes, ‘quick goodbyes make for dry eyes’
  3. Be aware of your own emotions 😭 🙅‍♂️ – When you’re calm and confident, that tells your child that s/he is safe. Young children rely on co-regulation to manage their emotions.

Acknowledge and validate their feelings by saying something like “I know goodbyes can be hard, but I always come back. I will see you later today. I love you.” Give a big hug, a smile and a wink.

Talk it out

Then at home, if your child is old enough, have a chat about why she/he is having a hard time at drop-off, and think about what you can do to alleviate it. Ask him or her what make things easier. Perhaps it’s including a comfort toy, blanket or family photo. Maybe you each have a special bracelet that you can touch when you’re missing each other. Make a plan for something special together when you pick him or her up, like a walk or playing a game together, which will give your child something to look forward to through the day.

Prepare in advance

If you’re preparing your child to go to early education or school, it’s best they understand what their days will look like. So the conversation could look something like ‘we’ll all have breakfast together and get ready for the day. Then we’ll get in the car and first we’ll stop at Little Scholars. I’ll walk you in, give you a big hug, and you’ll go off to have a day of play while I go to work. When I finish work, I’ll jump in the car and come right over to pick you up, then we’ll go _____” These conversations may have to happen several times for it to sink in.

Also, if you’re pondering signing your child up for early education, this is why we offer play dates to children newly enroled but yet to start – this allows them to begin to become familiar with their new educators and studios.

Remember, you can always chat with your educator or campus manager about how to help. We’re always available, and we’ve been through this before, we can offer ideas or reassurances everyone will be OK!

We also know separation anxiety can be a two-way street, especially for new parents, or returning to work after maternity leave. Don’t forget we have our Little Scholars app so you can see pictures of your child, and be reassured that if there were tears from your child, they likely didn’t last long and they’re busy having fun and learning while you’re at work.

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Parental separation anxiety : what it is and how to deal with it

Elizabeth Stone, an award-winning essayist and journalist, once captured the essence of parenthood with a poignant quote, ‘Making the decision to have a child – it is momentous. It is to decide forever to have your heart go walking around outside your body.’ This statement resonates deeply with many parents, astutely capturing the feelings of boundless love and the inevitable vulnerability that comes with bringing a child into the world.

This overwhelming surge of emotion is particularly intense during those initial moments and first days of separation from your child, often experienced when that child is entrusted to the care of someone else for the first time. It’s a milestone filled with mixed emotions for parents – pride in their growing independence, yet a deep longing to keep them close forever.

While the focus in the first few weeks at early learning facilities is generally on the children and how they’re settling in, an often-forgotten topic is the separation anxiety parents also can feel when they drop their little ones in care for the first time.

In childcare, we offer families tips on how to help children settle in, from suggestions such as: ‘don’t sneak away’, ‘keep goodbyes short’, and ‘maintain calm and confidence’, but what if the child is just fine, but the parents are struggling from the separation?

It’s understandable. If you’re coming off maternity or paternity leave, or perhaps you’ve been the primary parent at home for the last few years, change can be profoundly hard.

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What we’re talking about is parental separation anxiety, and it’s more common than you think.

“I experienced separation anxiety with both my children when I dropped them into care for the first time, but I was much more surprised with my feelings the second time around,” says Christina, a communications professional who has two children. “I had to go back to work much earlier the second time around, and I felt a lot of grief for not getting to continue to bond with my son the way I had been, knowing he was my last baby. I also experienced some fears around him attaching to his educators more than me.”

2016 study by Pacey UK (the professional association for childcare and early years) reported that out of 1,000 mothers, 70% of mums said they worried about the extent they would miss their children, 90% reported feeling anxious about returning to work after having a child, while nearly half of mums admitted being very anxious.

The signs of struggle in parents

How can parental separation anxiety manifest itself? Some of the more obvious signs are tears. Anxious feelings. Moodiness. While others you may not notice until they start affecting your life and mental health.

Here are some common indicators of more serious separation anxiety to be aware of:

  • Persistent worrying and imagining the worst-case scenarios
  • Elevated levels of anxiety or depression
  • Intense distress and experiencing panic attacks
  • Experiencing feelings of anger
  • Physical symptoms when apart from your child, such as headaches, nausea, or stomachaches
  • A constant desire to be aware of your child’s whereabouts at all time.

Reconciling anxious feelings

Ask yourself, what is your biggest fear or worry in separating from your child? The initial step in overcoming these feelings is to acknowledge and understand them. If you’re experiencing heightened anxiety about being apart from your child, it’s important to explore the origins of these feelings. Perhaps they stem from experiences in your life in  childhood, or birth trauma, the loss of pregnancy or another child, perinatal or postnatal anxiety/depression and existing anxiety issues, or it may simply be triggered by the act of becoming a parent.

“How does a parent reconcile these feelings of separating from their child? I think what’s important about that one is that often it’s around guilt,” says Sarah Bergman, a clinical psychotherapist at Counselling on the Coast who has more than three decades of experience in emotionally-focused therapy.

“Guilt is really an emotion that comes up when we have like an idealised sense of a situation or who we are. So we feel guilty when we don’t feel we’ve reached what we want to be reaching or we haven’t done what we want to do. I would say to explore those feelings of guilt, what they are, what you feel like you’re not doing for your child or getting right for your child.”

Sarah says those guilty feelings in parents often link back to situations in their own childhood where they felt like their own parents let them down. But the concern is also passing down those guilty or anxious feelings to your child.

“Their own wounds start to muddy the waters of the child’s experience. So the child’s just going to school, but then they feel their parents anxiety and then they also think that something’s wrong then too, which can make them anxious. So if the parents have a good look at themselves around, ‘what was it that my parents got wrong for me? or what was it that wounded me? and how does that now play across on my child?’ So the parents will often work hard to do the things that they don’t want that their children to experience themselves.”

While Sarah says often the guilty feelings stem from what they missed in their own childhood, the opposite could be true.

“Maybe [parents feel they’re] not meeting the ideals of what your parent did for you or what things that you really loved about your parent and now you feel like you’re not getting that right.”

Wherever the feelings stem from, Sarah says, parents may be trying to heal themselves through their relationship with their child. But, she says, a child doesn’t have those wounds. They don’t experience their parents in that same way that perhaps you did. So she surmises parents could be overcompensating for their own childhood pain.

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“Those kind of parents are very anxious at feeling like they have to attend to everything with their children because they don’t ever want their children to feel the way that they did,” Sarah summarises.

Consider jotting down your feelings or discussing them with a sympathetic friend or even a colleague who could relate with what you’re currently experiencing. Regardless of how trivial or illogical they might seem, allowing yourself to express and discuss these fears can aid in releasing them.

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Sarah also suggests parents educate themselves on secure attachment, a theory first proposed by the British psychologist, psychiatrist, and psychoanalyst John Bowlby. For children, secure attachment to someone like a mum or dad allows them the secure base necessary to explore, learn and relate, and the well-being, motivation, and opportunity to do so. It’s important for safety, stress regulation, adaptability, and resilience and ultimately can help produce a happy, healthy well-adjusted child.

If you are securely attached, you will feel less anxious because you will feel comfortable that you can trust, you have a positive view of other people and a positive view of self,” Sarah says. “So you think to yourself, ‘it’s okay. My child is in safe hands. They will let me know. I trust the daycare centre. And I trust myself that I’m doing the right thing by my child and it’s going to be okay and I need to go to work and this is just the way it is.’ Whereas someone who is more anxiously attached sometimes have a bit of a negative view of themself and possibly a bit of negative view of others so they don’t totally trust others, so it’s about trying to move into being more securely attached.”

She also says to have an honest conversation with educators or your campus manager.

“You know, that is actually good secure relating as well, that a parent can actually say, ‘I’m feeling a bit nervous’, or ‘I’m a bit worried about that,’ because they’re asking then, they’re not coping alone.”

Sarah recommends in that conversation, have a chat with educators or your campus manager about what might help to alleviate those anxious feelings, whether it’s a phone call or a text, a few extra pictures – whatever it is, having clear communication can help everyone.

“What helped me was an honest discussion with my son’s lead educator during a playdate. She asked me thoughtful questions about why I was having a hard time, asked how she could help alleviate those feelings for me, and was very mindful to update with lots of pictures, and even checked in on me at pick-up over the next few weeks. It was really helpful, and gave me feelings of trust in leaving my baby with her and her team,” Christina adds.

Those secure attachments we want children to have means we also want them to have bonds with others, such as loving educators.

A child who has had a secure attachment with her parent or another safe adult is more likely to be able to develop lasting successful relationships as an adult. In fact, a New York University study recently found positive, warm relationships between caregivers and children were associated with higher odds of attaining ideal heart health at multiple points across a 20-year span of adulthood, so developing these bonds is good for their health!

Part of early childhood training for educators is understand various child development theories such as attachment theory, so trust that your educators understand what secure attachments – both to parents and others children can trust – mean for children’s development and they work hard to ensure these bonds with your child.

Research has found our adult relationships are shaped by our early patterns of attachment and the ways we learn to deal with closeness and separation.

“Children are very attached to their parents and they love their parents very much. And that is who they want to be with. And if they create an attachment with someone else, that’s lovely. However, ultimately it’s important to keep in mind they will want to be with their parents,” Sarah says.

The pressure of parenting perfection

Sarah also says some of these feelings may be pressure we put on ourselves as parents.

“We don’t actually have to be perfect parents and I think a lot of people are really trying to be perfect parents and wrapping their children in bubble wrap. You just have to be good enough. I think from memory it’s only like around 60 or 70 per cent strike rate of meeting the child’s needs.”

Sarah is referring to the Winnicott theory.

“The good-enough mother is one who makes active adaptation to the infant’s needs, an active adaptation that gradually lessens, according to the infant’s growing ability to account for failure of adaptation and to tolerate the results of frustration.” – D. W. Winnicott, paediatrician and parent-infant therapist.

“We all have to learn that sometimes our needs aren’t going to be met. And that’s actually where we build resilience and we build understanding around that other people have things they need to do as well,” Sarah says. “You don’t have to drop everything to be there for your kids. It’s okay to have ruptures with your children. It’s actually okay because that is a realistic expectation on relationships. We all have ruptures and then we get to learn how to repair those ruptures. But of course, if the child’s fallen over or they’ve hurt themselves or they’re scared at night, you want your strike rate on those things needs to be closer to 100 per cent.

“But otherwise, we don’t have to be so hard on ourselves, we can get it wrong sometimes. We just go back and say, ‘Hey, I’m sorry I got that wrong.’ And then the child also learns that they’re going to get things wrong sometimes, too. They can come to their parent and say, ‘Hey, Mum, sorry about that.’”

If we can offer some advice, it’s what we also suggest to parents when children are having a hard time with separating. Find an activity you can do together outside of care hours that you can look forward to, so you can cherish your time together. Maybe after pick-up, you take your child for a walk or to the park, maybe it’s grabbing a sneaky ice cream after dinner, maybe it’s a game night or story time when you get home. Find ways to really connect with your child in the time you’re together may make the time you’re apart easier to deal with.

Sarah says mindful activities can help in easing anxious feelings. But, she says, if these feelings are taking over, it might be worth talking to a professional as soon as possible. You can talk to your GP about a referral to see a psychologist, or you can book in to a specialist practice such as Sarah’s Counselling on the Coast to have a chat with a psychotherapist.

Please remember, if Little Scholars can help in any way, we will, from offering a listening ear, to phone calls to whatever would help your family, we will. We’re not just here for children, we’re here for the whole family.

Lara Suddards

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12 wonderful 2025 events throughout South East Queensland for the whole family

Grandparents have always shared a special bond with their grandchildren, but nowadays they are also playing an increasingly important role as a caregiver, as children spend much more time with their grandparents than ever before. Sometimes however, the generation gap can make it hard to think of new and fun things to do together that appeal to everyone.

Whether the grandchildren are spending an afternoon, a weekend, or the school holidays with you, this list is sure to keep children and grandparents of all interests and physical abilities, entertained and making memories year-round.

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Each year, World Science Festival Brisbane paints the town red and takes science out of the laboratory and into the streets, parks, museums, galleries and performing arts venues of Brisbane and regional Queensland! World Science Festival Brisbane offers interactive and informative experiences for inquisitive young minds, with a huge range of family-friendly events and workshops.

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Gather your family and friends and join in a fun weekend in the Scenic Rim region, filled with live entertainment, workshops for children, cooking classes, mini photo sessions, arts, crafts and much more. Don’t forget the star of the show – strolling through beautiful sunflower fields and picking your own to take home.

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Surfers Paradise beach becomes a playground of light, music and entertainment at SeaFire, Australia’s only international fireworks competition. Nations compete to take home the SeaFire Championship title, so this is a chance to see choreographed fireworks displays fired off ocean barges. Bring your picnic blanket and set up in the sand for beautiful firework vistas. There is also plenty of pre-entertainment including food trucks, music and roving performances.

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Kalfresh Vegetables throw open the doors to their farm and factory and welcome carrot-loving visitors each June!

See how they grow, pick, wash and pack carrots, as well as celebrate all things carrot with carrot juice, carrot sausages, carrot cake and carrot bread!  Everyone can get their hands dirty with carrot picking on the farm, taking home as many as you can carry.

This year’s date has yet to be released, so keep an eye on Kalfresh’s social media channels for its official date. This is held on the Scenic Rim, at Kalbar on the Cunningham Highway in the Fassifern Valley.

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The Winter Harvest Festival is the Scenic Rim’s signature event where you can experience Eat Local Month in one glorious, flavour-filled day! Chefs, growers. producers, and artisans come together to showcase the region’s culinary treasures. There will be more than 60 market stalls offering fresh seasonal produce, local wines, beers and spirits, cheeses, meats, and more. Alongside these culinary delights, you’ll find a variety of handcrafted goods and local creations, all crafted by the region’s skilled artisans.

There are food displays, workshops, produce stalls and a huge festival environment where the children can take part in a variety of games, activities and food related fun.nteractive activities like tractor pulling, carrot tossing, and farm animal cuddles. They’ll enjoy face painting, garden games, and fun, educational experiences that teach them about agriculture and food in a hands-on way.

Don’t miss the annual Tractor Pull competition!

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Where country meets the Gold Coast! Get up close and personal with cute animals, meet the farmers and exhibitors and taste delicious foods made from locally sourced ingredients. Watch the woodchop, and enjoy the equestrian program. Wander through the pavilions, check out the crafts and cooking, from honey to homebrew, lace to LEGO, fine arts to photography, and flowers to fruit sculptures and explore the best agriculture has to offer. Finish the day off with an incredible fireworks display!

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The Royal Queensland Show (Ekka) is Queensland’s largest and most loved annual event, now in its 149th year, bringing the country and the city together for a big celebration of agriculture. Enjoy competition entries from woodchop to giant vegetables, there’s 10,000 animals from beef cattle to cats and dogs, world-class live entertainment, award-winning food and wine, carnival rides and showbags, family shopping, educational activities and much more.

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The Pacific Airshow Gold Coast is a three-day weekend event that features aerobatic demonstrations by the world’s best aviators. Attendees can join in meet and greets with the pilots, check out the family zone packed with aviation themed games and activities, and relax beachfront while watching paratroopers, stunt planes, helicopters, military planes and more from around the world perform. 

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Immerse yourself in the family fun and excitement of the Gold Coast Show! Set on the beautiful Broadwater Parklands on the Gold Coast, this FREE show attracts tens of thousands of families annually. Enjoy woodchop, equestrian, food and beverage stalls, exhibits, games and rides. Each night also concludes with an incredible fireworks show.

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Riverfire is Brisbane’s most spectacular night of the year. The launch event for the three-week Brisbane Festival, Riverfire brings families from across south-east Queensland to South Bank for a night that lights up the skies. Entertainment begins from 4pm, including an RAAF aerial display, with the main event – the state’s most spectacular annual fireworks display – lighting up the sky at 7pm.

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RedFest is Redland City’s main event, showcasing musicians and artists from across the region. For two days, the Redlands Showground becomes a celebration of the amazing community, with performers sharing their skills across the showground. Families are also taken care of, with a children’s program, featuring a range of free activities including farm animals, puppet shows, rock climbing and free face painting, Sideshow alley and spectacular fireworks.

The date is still in the works, check RedFest’s social media channels for date confirmation.

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SWELL is Queensland’s premier outdoor sculpture exhibition, set along Gold Coast’s Currumbin Beach. For 10 days, more than 60 small, medium and large-scale sculptures will be set up along the beachfront and boardwalk for families to view.

The Family Zone activation is always popular, with workshops, activities, a BookFest setup where children can take home a free pre-loved book, live music and chill out zones set up under the leafy trees. Go at sunrise or sunset to beat the heat and experience the sculptures in a different light.

When considering how to look after your family during the work week, look no further than Little Scholars!  

We offer your child the very best facilities, resources and early educational, play-based programs available, which are underpinned by the early years learning framework. We also believe in fun, wide-ranging experiences so that children can begin to develop interests and passions of their own, from Bush Kinder adventures to our broad extracurricular program which includes swimming for our kindergarten children, we believe in keeping wonder and magic in childhood.

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Little Scholars is thrilled to welcome our guest blogger Lara Suddards. Lara is a mum of two small children and writer of her popular blog Mrs Lardeedah.com, which shares thoughtful ideas, advice and recommendations to grateful parents of fun things to do for the whole family.
14 fabulously festive ways to celebrate Christmas on the Gold Coast, Logan and Redlands

The festive season is here and the opportunities to get in the spirit are endless! Why not check your shopping list off at a Christmas market, jingle along at a carols concert or putt your way through a Christmas wonderland. To make sure you do not miss out on the festive cheer, here is your go-to guide with only the best of the best Christmas happenings picked out for you. Be sure to add these dates to your calendar!

 Get ready for an exciting and interactive Santa show! Join Santa, Mrs Claus and Rudolf for a Christmas extravaganza that includes a mix of traditional carols and current pop songs.

Pacific Pines Central Park, 4-8:30pm

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This free family festivity will feature live music, market stalls, inflatable fun, local restaurant specials, games and activities, plus a visit from Santa Claus.

Ron Short Park, 4-8pm

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Bring your family for the largest carols event on the northern Gold Coast, an unforgettable night with fireworks, food vans, and festive sing-alongs.

Brien Harris Oval, from 4pm

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Carols On The Beach

One of the all-time favourite Christmas carols will be performed in a 2-hour celebration of song and dance on the beach, with a visit from Santa, and a fireworks finale!

Surfers Paradise Beach, 5-8pm

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Wind your way through the Market lanes to the sweet serenades of stunning live music, spot roving performers, snap a selfie with an elf… or meet Santa himself!

Home of the Arts, 4-9pm

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The elves have been busy transforming the 9-hole mini golf course into a spectacular Christmas wonderland! 

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Free live music on stage, roving performers, children’s entertainment, fantastic food trucks, and Christmas market stalls. Plus see Santa making a special appearance alongside a fireworks display.

Ed Hardy Park, 4-8pm

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Dine under the stars at one of the fantastic local eateries, check out the local business offerings, and visit the Christmas market stalls. Plenty of free children’s entertainment on offer throughout the program with Santa making a special appearance!

Toolona Street, Tugan, 4-8:30pm

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Sing along to your all-time favourite carols, enjoy a delicious assortment of food trucks, watch Santa fly in and watch a sparkling fireworks finale! 

Queen Elizabeth Park, 5:30-7:30pm

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A truly unique festive celebration, this event will feature live stage entertainment, Christmas carols, Santa, Fireworks over the beautiful Lake Orr and much more!

Waterfront Stage, Varsity Lakes, 4-8pm

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A fabulous, family Christmas event with market stalls, food trucks, Santa, Christmas carols, live music, facepainting and free children’s craft area.

Mudgeeraba Showgrounds, 3-8pm

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Logan & Redlands

City Of Logan Christmas Carols Hero

The City of Logan Christmas Carols is the city’s biggest annual Christmas event. This free, family-friendly event features hours of on-stage entertainment, festive activities, food trucks, and markets, all jam-packed into one magical day.

Kingston Butter Factory Cultural Precinct, 3-8:30pm

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Experience a pop-up Christmas market brimming with a variety of local vendors, a special visit from Santa’s elves, and Mr & Mrs Claus will drop by for photos under a larger-than-life wreath, suspended above the Market Hall.

Distillery Road Market, 11am-9pm

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A free 7-minute light and sound show running at 6:30pm, 6:45pm, 7pm & 7:15pm. Get ready to catch all the “bubble snow” at the end!

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If you’re looking for early education and care for your young family, look no further than Little Scholars!  

We offer your child the very best facilities, resources and early educational, play-based programs available, which are underpinned by the early years learning framework. We also believe in fun, wide-ranging experiences so that children can begin to develop interests and passions of their own, from Bush Kinder adventures to our broad extracurricular program which includes swimming for our kindergarten children, we believe in keeping wonder and magic in childhood.

Find Lara’s recommendations at her website Mrs. Lardeedah.com, and follow her socials Facebook and Instagram

We adore the endless stream of questions that little ones bring to us every day!  From an early education standpoint, we want children to learn at every opportunity. Children are inquisitive beings, and they have lots to learn! At Little Scholars, we cherish this innate curiosity in children and strive to foster a lifelong passion for learning.

As parents and educators, we understand that some questions from our little ones can catch us off guard, leaving us searching for the right words to provide age-appropriate answers. We’re here to lend a helping hand, so let’s tackle a few of these tough questions together!

Conception

How are babies made/how did a baby get in a mummy’s belly?

Children at this age are curious about the beginning of life. You can answer simply, “A tiny seed, called sperm, from the daddy joins with a special egg from the mummy, and that’s how a baby starts to grow inside the mummy’s belly.” They may understand it like a fruit grows from a seed. For young children, this should satisfy the question. You may want to explain it’s not the same kind of egg we eat for breakfast!

Death

What does dying mean?

The concept of death can be challenging for young children to grasp. We think it’s important to be honest here. You can say, “Dying means that a person’s body stops working, and they don’t feel pain anymore. They don’t breathe, eat, feel hungry or cold. It’s a natural part of life’s cycle, like when leaves fall from a tree in the autumn.” This is a topic that may be followed up with further questions, such as ‘will I die or will you die?’ and be honest. “Yes, we all die. But I hope to be around for a really long time. I have no serious illnesses that could change that.”

What happens to us when we die?

For toddlers and preschoolers, you can offer a comforting response like, “When someone dies, they become like a beautiful memory in our hearts. We remember all the happy times we shared with them, and they will always be a part of us.” If your family has cultural or religious beliefs around death, this may be the place to share, “in our family and our culture/religion, we believe when the body dies ______.” Your child may work through this further through their play, but just be there for them and prepared to revisit this topic.

Same-sex relationships

How come Louis has two dads?

Children may notice different family structures. You can say, “Families come in all shapes and sizes. Louis is very lucky to have two dads who love and care for him just like your mummy and daddy love you.”

Separation

Why does Ashley’s mum live in a different house from her dad?

When answering a small child’s question about why a couple has divorced, we think a simple, honest, and age-appropriate response that takes their emotional well-being into consideration works best. Here’s one way to address the question: “Sometimes, mummies and daddies decide to live separately because they have found they feel happier when they have some space. It’s like when friends need some time apart.

If it’s your separation, your child will need a lot of reassurance from you. “Even though mummy and daddy won’t be living in the same house, we both still love you very much, and we will always be there for you. You will have special time with both of them, and we will continue to love and care for you in different homes.”

Young children may have a limited understanding of complex situations like divorce, so keeping the explanation simple and reassuring them of their parents’ love is crucial. Encourage them to share their feelings and questions, and assure them that it’s okay to talk about their emotions. Creating a supportive and open environment helps children navigate through changes and emotions in a healthy way.

News events

What happened in the news that’s making everyone so sad?

Addressing sad news can be tricky. Open the discussion by asking your child what they know about what’s happened in the news. This is a good opportunity to correct false information and provide context. Remember to use age-appropriate language. Check your child’s understanding throughout the conversation and allow them to ask questions. You can say, “Sometimes, sad things happen in the world, and it can make people feel upset. It’s okay to feel sad or worried, and we can always talk about our feelings with someone we trust. You can always talk to me about anything.”

Natural disasters

I’m scared, why is the weather so bad?

Living in Queensland, while wonderful most of the time, also means we face all kinds of weather events, such as flooding, bush fires and extreme heat, and cyclones. Unusual weather can be scary for young children, so it’s important to stay calm and make sure the information you give them is age-appropriate and simple to understand.

It’s natural for children to feel scared, so reassure them with calm and simple words. Acknowledge their feelings and let them know they are safe. You might say:

“I can see that you’re worried, and that makes sense. These weather events can be scary, but we are safe. People are working hard to protect us, and we keep learning how to stay even safer in the future.”

Thunderstorms

Thunderstorms occur when warm, moist air rises rapidly into cooler parts of the atmosphere. As the air cools, clouds and rain form. Inside the clouds, lightning, a form of electricity, builds up. When lightning strikes, it heats the surrounding air, causing it to expand quickly and create the sound of thunder – BOOM! At the same time, cooler air sinks toward the ground, leading to strong winds.

Cyclones

A cyclone happens when warm air over the ocean rises up, creating a low-pressure area that pulls in cooler air, making it spin around like a whirlpool, and as the air gets higher, it cools down and forms clouds, bringing heavy rain and strong winds; basically, it’s like a big spinning dance of hot and cold air over the sea! These winds and rain can cause damage, but this is why we have emergency services to help keep us safe, and life will eventually go back to normal.

Flooding

Floods happen when it rains heavily for a long time, causing rivers, canals, creeks and oceans to overflow and water to spread onto land that is normally dry. It’s a natural event, and not anyone’s fault, and that while sometimes scary, there are ways to stay safe and prepared!

Bush fires

Bushfires happen when dry conditions, high temperatures, and strong winds cause trees and grass to catch fire. Sometimes, they start naturally, like from lightning, and other times, they are caused by people. Firefighters and experts work hard to prevent and control them to keep people and animals safe. 

 

Science-related

Why is the sky blue?

The secret behind the blue sky lies in something called “Rayleigh scattering”. It’s a fancy scientific term, but it’s a super interesting phenomenon that helps us understand why the sky is blue. When sunlight enters the Earth’s atmosphere, it interacts with tiny particles like dust, water vapour, and pollen. This mixing causes the sunlight to scatter, or spread out, in all directions. When light waves hit these particles, they bounce off and scatter in different directions, just like water droplets scatter after you throw a rock into a pond.

Now you might ask, “Why is the sky blue and not another colour?” That’s because blue light has a shorter wavelength than other colours of light, like red or yellow. Shorter wavelengths scatter more easily when they interact with the tiny particles in the atmosphere. So, when we look up at the sky, we see more blue light than other colours.

But guess what? The sky isn’t always blue! Sunrises and sunsets are not only beautiful but also full of science. The colours we see during these times depend on the angle of the sun and the distance its light travels through the atmosphere. The lower the sun is in the sky, the more atmosphere the light has to pass through. This causes shorter wavelengths, like blue and green, to scatter more, leaving the longer wavelengths, like red and orange, to dominate the sky. That’s why we see those breathtaking colours during sunrises and sunsets!

Clouds, pollution, and weather can also change the sky’s colour, making it look grey, white, hazy, or yellow.

Where do birds go at night?

Children might wonder where birds go when it gets dark. You can say, “Birds have special nests or cozy spots where they rest at night, just like we have our beds to sleep in.

How do plants grow?

Children might be fascinated by the growth of plants and flowers. You can say, “The plants have roots at the bottom that absorb water and minerals in the ground, and then the stem starts growing. With the help of the sunlight, the stem grows in branches. Green leaves start growing out of the branches. The five things plants need to grow are sunlight, water, minerals, and food..

Why do we have seasons?

Seasons happen because the Earth goes around the sun. The Earth travels around the sun, called an orbit, once a year or every 365 days. As the Earth orbits the sun, the amount of sunlight each location on the planet gets every day changes slightly. This change causes the seasons. When it’s closer to the sun, it’s warmer, and when it’s farther away, it’s cooler.

Where does rain come from?

Children may be curious about rain and weather. Sunlight heats up water on Earth’s surface. The heat causes the water to evaporate/dry up into the sky, or to turn into water vapor. This water vapor rises into the air and makes up clouds. As the water vapor cools, it turns back into water, in the form of droplets or rain drops.

How do airplanes fly?

Little ones might be fascinated by airplanes in the sky. “Airplanes have special wings that help lift them into the air. When they move forward, the air goes over and under the wings, which creates lift and allows the airplane to fly.”

If they have follow-up questions, we liked the answers from Britannica Kids.

Growing up

Why do I have to go to bed early?

Children may question bedtime rules. You can say, “Going to bed early helps our bodies and minds rest and get ready for a new day of fun and learning.”

Why do I have to eat vegetables? 

Answer with something like, “Vegetables have special nutrients that help our bodies grow strong and healthy. They are like superhero foods for our bodies! We need a variety of food that have different types of nutrients so our bodies can get everything they need to be the best they can be.

How come your body doesn’t look like mine?

We bet you thought the puberty question would come later! But nope, your child has noticed there’s a slight difference between their bodies and their parents’ bodies. We know this can feel awkward to answer, but your child doesn’t understand why it could be hard for their parents to explain, so use proper words and keep it simple.

  • Why do you have hair down there? Getting hair under your arms and on your private parts is a normal part of growing up for boys and girls.
  • What are those bumps on mummy’s chest? They’re called breasts and they come in all different sizes. They can make milk when mummies have babies in their bellies and can feed babies while they’re little.

It’s okay not to have all the answers, and it’s perfectly fine to keep explanations simple and age-appropriate. If you don’t have the answers, you can look it up together. By embracing your child’s questions and engaging in open conversations, you’re nurturing their curiosity and building a strong foundation for their learning journey. Be sure to let your lead educator know you’re having these conversations at home. Your child is likely not the only one wondering some of these questions, and your educators can find ways to help them understand life’s curiosities!

Lara Suddards

Guest Blogger for Little Scholars
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Little Scholars is thrilled to welcome our guest blogger Lara Suddards. Lara is a mum of two small children and writer of her popular blog Mrs Lardeedah.com, which shares thoughtful ideas, advice and recommendations to grateful parents of fun things to do for the whole family.
7 wonderful opportunities to create memories with grandchildren
Grandparentsday

Grandparents have always shared a special bond with their grandchildren, but nowadays they are also playing an increasingly important role as a caregiver, as children spend much more time with their grandparents than ever before. Sometimes however, the generation gap can make it hard to think of new and fun things to do together that appeal to everyone.

Whether the grandchildren are spending an afternoon, a weekend, or the school holidays with you, this list is sure to keep children and grandparents of all interests and physical abilities, entertained and making memories year-round.

A beautiful day on the Gold Coast’s waterways make for some stunning views and great sight-seeing! The Gold Coast’s very own hop-on hop-off ferry is the perfect multi-generational way to spend a day. Departing hourly from five iconic Gold Coast destinations, including the famous Surfers Paradise and HOTA, Home of the Arts, you can hop on at any of the five stops, and stay aboard for the full loop (two hours) or explore the hop-off destinations at your leisure. Enjoy a drink from the onboard bar whilst the friendly captain keeps you entertained with informative commentary, music, local tips and wildlife spotting. Children can also meet the captain and have a turn driving the boat. There are a range of ticket options available, from day passes to long hops and short hops – depending on your budget and timeframes. Children under five always travel for free too!

Aquaduck

Another way to take to the water is with the iconic AquaDuck, and while it’s touristy, it’s a really great family outing, and perfect for multigenerational passengers. Embarking in the heart of Surfers Paradise, drive down the Esplanade overlooking the beautiful beaches and head towards The Spit. Once you reach the boat ramp just past SeaWorld, the tour changes pace and you’re heading for the water! Watch as the amphibious ‘duck’ changes from bus to boat and gently glides into the water. Now you’ll head through the Broadwater to check out how the millionaires live. You’ll finally return to land and drive down Tedder Avenue, before finishing back up at Cavill Avenue. The tour takes about an hour and is very family friendly, with children offered the chance to drive the boat and get their Captain’s certificate!

Children's Gallery Hota

While the HOTA Gallery may be designed to cater for international art exhibitions, grandparents looking to give the grandchildren some culture will feel right at home! The Children’s Gallery at HOTA Gallery lets little artists get hands on – you won’t find any “do not touch” signs here! The Children’s Gallery changes every few months, each time offering a variety of interactive exhibits that complement the main galleries. After visiting the Children’s Gallery, take a stroll through the other free Galleries where you’ll find a few installations that are interactive and the children will love. Be sure to also ride the lift to the top floor and take in the Gold Coast skyline view! Fabulous 270 degree views await and there’s a guide you can use to work out what all the buildings are.

Bamboo Down Under

Bamboo Down Under at Wongawallan is a garden centre with a difference. The perfect grandparent’s day out, here you can explore a species garden, meditation garden, labyrinth, sensory garden and bamboo tunnel, and get bamboozled in the bamboo maze! Children can take on the Scavenger Hunt to discover the hidden pandas, all the while having a look at some incredible ornamental species of bamboo. Don’t miss the Rainforest Walk, a very peaceful stroll through a forest of enormous bamboo varieties. Dotted throughout are information signs about bamboo, little panda ornaments and other garden statues. Don’t miss the enchanted hollow at the end of the Tunnel.

Cascade Gardens Broadbeach

The Cascade Gardens at Broadbeach has a special addition of a sensory garden designed for seniors, but it also makes for great fun for little ones! In the sensory garden you’ll find elements including a musical gong, wayfinding design and productive gardens that encourage you to interact with the gardens through sight, touch and smell. It’s a beautiful addition to the Gardens and makes this spot perfect for multi-generational get togethers! The playground is older in style, but the children don’t seem to mind. You’ll find a flying fox, rope bridge, rock climbing wall and a carousel.

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For the more active grandparents, a visit to Tropical Fruit World just over the NSW border in Duranbah is a fabulous day out for the family! Book a Farm Tour and experience a fruit tasting and a tractor-driven guided park tour. On the tour you can pick and eat bananas straight from the tree, crack macadamia nuts, feed and pat kangaroos, sheep, alpacas and miniature horses, and enjoy a short wildlife boat cruise too! At the end of the tour visit Wildlife Island and burn some energy on the flying fox, mini golf course and volleyball court. Then, check out the fruit market, café, and the huge sandpit by the grassed lawn to relax. If you live in the Tweed, Gold Coast, Byron, Lismore and Ballina, you can purchase tours at a discounted rate.

(Image with thanks to Tropical Fruit World)

The Messy Place

The generational gap can sometimes be hardest when the grandparents are tasked with spending time with energetic little toddlers. Keeping up with their ever-changing attention span, endless energy and natural curiosity is challenging for everyone! The Messy Place at Ashmore is the ultimate creative sensory play centre on the Gold Coast, designed exclusively for children under six years of age. They offer creative and messy play sessions in a safe and enjoyable environment, where they can unleash their imagination and make a mess. Exploration is encouraged, and grandparents can feel reassured being indoors in a secure, enclosed space. Sessions are booked on a casual basis and run five days per week.

National Grandparents’ Day is celebrated in Australia on the last Sunday of October. But as we all know, Grandparents Day is any day that the grandchildren can spend precious time with their grandparents. Whether you are a parent looking for how your child can have fun with grandma and grandpa or a grandparent seeking things to do with your grandchildren, we hope these ideas will inspire your time together.

We wholeheartedly believe in the proverb ‘it takes a village to raise a child.’ Little Scholars is proud to be a part of communities across South East Queensland, and we’re happy to play a small role in childhoods across the Gold Coast, Redlands and Brisbane.

We offer you and your child the very best facilities, resources and early educational, play-based programs available, which are underpinned by the early years learning framework. Our belief is that through quality education and care for children we can also encourage, assist and support the entire family.

Our dedicated team of educators are committed to the individual needs and interests of children and their families, and thus we encourage and welcome family input and involvement.

We aim to be like an extension of your family and are very relationship-driven. We support nurturing relationships between our educators and your child, the relationships your child has with the other children who attend, and we value our relationship with you as the parent and other family members. So book a tour today to get started!

Find Lara’s recommendations at her website Mrs. Lardeedah.com, and follow her socials Facebook and Instagram

 

Deception Bay is a vibrant community in the City of Moreton Bay, just 45 minutes from Brisbane. Little Scholars has proudly been a part of this community since 2018. As we gear up to open our second campus, Little Scholars Deception Bay North, in January 2025, we’re excited to share some of our favourite family-friendly activities in the Moreton Bay area. After all, we’d like to think we’re more than just early learning, we’re proud members of this vibrant community. We cherish our families and believe in building treasured memories throughout childhood.

Check out our list of 17 fun family activities, though it’s just a glimpse of what this lively community has to offer.

Images and information courtesy of the organisations mentioned below, as well as City of Moreton BayVisit Moreton Bay and Brisbane Kids

Art galleries

Moreton Bay and surrounding areas host a number of art and culture galleries, a terrific addition to an area of about 500,000 people!

Caboolture Regional Art Gallery – In a contemporary gallery space, visitors can explore an exhibition program featuring significant Australian and international artists. The gallery showcases in-house curated exhibitions alongside touring shows from Australia’s leading visual art institutions, bringing the best of Australian art to the region for everyone to enjoy. Notably, a variety of family-friendly activities, including artist talks, workshops, and tours, are available throughout the year, making it a welcoming space for families to engage with art and creativity together.

Redcliffe Art Gallery – Redcliffe Art Gallery is the Peninsula’s premier family-friendly arts destination! With four exhibition spaces, families can enjoy a diverse range of works by local, emerging, and established Australian artists. The Studio, a dedicated public program space, frequently hosts artist-led workshops and transforms into a vibrant and popular art space for kids and families during school holidays. It’s the perfect place for families to explore art together and spark creativity in a welcoming environment!

Pine Rivers Art Gallery – a welcoming family-friendly space located on Turrbal Country. The gallery features an immersive exhibition program centered around an annual theme, showcasing collaborations with local and national artists. Families can enjoy art experiences that inspire curiosity and creativity together. Visitors of all ages can enhance their experience in the gallery’s dedicated engagement space, which hosts a diverse range of events and activities throughout the year. From hands-on artist-led workshops to fun, family-friendly programs during school holidays, there’s something for everyone to enjoy!

 

Museums

Bribie Island Seaside Museum  – Plan your next outing at the picturesque Bribie Island Seaside Museum! Located near the waterfront and overlooking the iconic Pumicestone Passage, this museum showcases the rich and fascinating history of Bribie Island, including: video archives with stories from First Nations elders, a theatre screening films about the famous S.S. Koopa (1911-1953), insights into Bribie Island’s significant role during World War II and the story of internationally acclaimed artist Ian FairweatherVisitors can learn about the intriguing history of Bribie Island through a variety of immersive and interactive displays, along with heaps of events and workshops throughout the year.

Redcliffe Museum – is a family-friendly destination that offers children a unique and contemporary glimpse into the people, places, and stories that have shaped this historical seaside town. The museum features: a First Nations video archive with stories about language and culture, films about the early days of the Peninsula, including the famous Rollerdome, offers a chance to rummage through memory boxes to uncover items and stories from the past. Throughout the year, families can enjoy a vibrant program of ever-changing exhibitions, events, and workshops, including the exciting Imaginarium, a dedicated children’s play space filled with various activities and crafts designed for children to create, learn, and explore.

Pine Rivers Heritage Museum is a fantastic family-friendly destination that invites children to explore the stories and significance of the district throughout history. The museum features an 1890s kit home produced by the renowned timber merchant James Campbell and Sons, the Skyring Clock Collection, showcasing 50 hand-crafted clocks, short films detailing the history of Normanby Rum, the Australian Paper Mill, and other early industries in the region, and a collection items that highlight Pine Rivers’ role during WWII. 

Woodford Museum – Right in the heart of Woodford Village and only about half an hour from our Deception Bay campus is the Woodford Historical Society’s Museum. The Museum is a community exhibition hub for the history of Woodford’s early explorers and home of the Mick and Val Draper collection of miniature buildings.

Get outdoors!

The Hills District All Abilities Playground – Leslie Patrick Park is an ideal spot for a fun-filled day for all little ones! This all-abilities playground ensures that children of all physical and intellectual abilities can join in the excitement and play together.

Bray Farm “Harry Potter” Park, Griffin – Mentioned in our popular blog post about playgrounds across South East Queensland, Bray Farm Park is commonly known as the ‘Harry Potter’ park in Griffin, north of Brisbane, this destination blends art, culture, nature, and fun for the entire family. There’s two whimsical ‘cottage style’ play structures, a climbing sphere, slides, swings, and charming bridges. With a magical forest backdrop, plenty of park benches, winding paths, and a large grassy area for games, this park is sure to be a fun day out for all! Parents take note, there aren’t toilets, the park isn’t fenced and it’s close to a road, so keep an eye on your youngsters while they play!

Lightwood Parklands in Caboolture South is an impressive multistorey playground designed for older children, making it perfect for primary school age and above. The playground features a challenging multi-storey fort with a thrilling three-story tunnel slide, swings for younger children, climbing nets, and a pump track that connects to wide pathways—ideal for bikes and scooters. Additional amenities include playing fields, a basketball half court, BBQs, and accessible toilets, ensuring a fun and inclusive experience for all.

Brisbane Kids has a fantastic blog on the best parks in Moreton Bay – check it out!

Caboolture Region Environmental Education Centre (CREEC) – With more than 18 hectares of diverse native vegetation near Burpengary Creek, the CREEC has plenty of wide open spaces, as well as shady, tucked away areas for hotter days. Discover the nocturnal room, interactive educational displays, and native stingless beehive inside the centre. Entry is free. With its manicured greens, a large fully fenced, all-abilities playground, BBQs and other family-friendly facilities, a nursery, and forest trails, the iconic CREEC has something for almost everyone!

Trevena Glen Farm at Mount Samson – a great escape from the city, Trevena Glen Farm gives an authentic farm experience for families with a dozen animals on the 16 acre family farm. Families can pay to tour the farm and see horses, rabbits, chickens, guinea pigs, goats, alpacas, llama, pigs, sheep, donkeys, mini horses and a dog. Pony rides are also an option and At the heart of the farm is Trevena Glen’s iconic 130 year old Moreton bay fig tree. This beautiful tree has a multi-level tree house. 

Dolphin Wild Island Cruises Moreton Island – For the adventurous types, why not try a Moreton Island cruise and snorkel experience? Enjoy an eco-cruise around the area spotting marine life including dolphins, sea turtles and  dugongs feeding on the seagrass during a marine eco-tour. The company welcomes families to bring their prams on board, ensuring that parents and guardians can easily navigate the vessel with their little ones. The minimum age to participate in the snorkelling activity is six years with an ability to swim and all children must be accompanied by an adult. Lucy, the operations manager, says they do the guided snorkel tour in rotations of smaller groups so both carers can have an opportunity to snorkel if looking after children who can’t participate. Those who can’t participate in the snorkel tour can either remain on the boat or get ferried to Moreton Island beach to experience the sand dunes and shallower waters. 

Osprey House Environmental Centre – The interpretive centre includes a life size dugong, bird and animal displays and the live streaming video from the osprey nest. You’ll find interesting educational displays, ‘touch’ tables and information provided in numerous and novel ways. They also offer story time sessions and school holiday programs. Explore the mangroves, Wildlife can be seen from the Mudflats, and in the Eucalypt Forest, the dominant trees above the tidal zone are Queensland Blue Gums and Grey Ironbarks – major Koala food species. Look out for the Koala that sometimes visits.

Kumbartcho Sanctuary and NurseryThis beautiful 6-hectare sanctuary, located next to the South Pine River, preserves the remaining pockets of riverine rainforest. Kumbartcho is home to an array of wildlife, including koalas, frogs, snakes, turtles, and possums. The nearby river provides opportunities to spot waterbirds, shorebirds, and even predatory raptors. Visitors are welcome to explore the sanctuary, enjoy the playground, and visit the plant nursery for a wonderful day surrounded by nature.

Settlement Cove Lagoon is a picturesque, tropical-style public pool situated on the Redcliffe Peninsula. With palms and fig trees lining the area, the lagoon and wading pools provide a perfect spot for families to relax and enjoy during the summer months. Young children will love the fenced-off water park with mushroom fountains, and a nearby playground. Settlement Cove is a great picnic spot, with barbeque areas, picnic shelters, and plenty of shade.

The Convict Trail – To learn a quirkier lesson, why not take the family along the convict trail? In 1824, Queensland’s first penal colony was founded on the Redcliffe Peninsula, marking the start of the state’s colonial history. The settlement included soldier barracks, a jail, the Commandant’s House, and various smaller buildings. Despite early progress, food and water shortages forced the abandonment of the site, leading to the relocation of the colony to the banks of the Brisbane River, now the heart of Brisbane’s CBD. Today, you can explore this fascinating chapter of history along the 1.7km Redcliffe Convict Trail, where the legacy of Queensland’s earliest settlers comes to life.

There you have it! We hope you enjoyed our list of the best things to do with your family in Moreton Bay. If you’re after the best childcare in Deception Bay, look no further than Little Scholars Deception Bay and Deception Bay North, due to open January 2025!

Contact us or book a tour today to ensure your little one gets the best start to life that they can.

Do you have a family friendly Ipswich place to visit that should be on this list? Let us know on our socials @littlescholarsearlylearning!
*Images courtesy of facilities listed as well as City of Moreton Bay, Visit Moreton Bay Region, and Brisbanekids.com.

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