When was the last time you visited your local library with your children? Libraries across South East Queensland have transformed into vibrant community hubs packed with hands-on experiences, tech adventures, toy libraries, craft corners and more- and most of it is completely free! Whether you live on the Gold Coast, in Ipswich, or around Brisbane, here’s a closer look at some of the hidden gems waiting for families.
Gold Coast Libraries have a strong focus on early literacy, and their First 5 Forever family sessions are a big hit with parents and little ones. From Baby Rhyme Time (0-2 yrs) which includes songs and rhymes to help build early language skills, to Toddler Time (2-4yrs) with singing and movement, and Story time (0-5yrs), families are guaranteed to create lasting memories together.
But it’s what happens beyond storytime that really surprises families. The Gold Coast Library network includes a fabulous Accessible Resource Collection (similar to a Toy Library), where families can borrow toys, puzzles and games the way you would borrow books. You can browse in person or put things on hold online, and pick them up from your local branch. Their after school programming is also a highlight, with every branch running weekly drop in LEGO® building sessions, and also a Monthly Learners Hub for primary-school aged children designed to get them connecting, playing, and learning in fun, hands-on ways.
If you’re planning a visit to one of the Gold Coast libraries, these branches stand out as extra special for children:
This beloved library has long been a family favourite. With a slide, padded reading nooks, toys and games, it’s a space designed for children to explore, imagine and play. Once it reopens, it’ll no doubt continue to be a go-to destination for families.
It may be tiny, but parents of under-fives rave about its dedicated play space and educational toys. It’s a perfect spot for a relaxed morning with little ones.
Just steps from the beach, this branch was recently refurbished and now features a bright, vibrant children’s area. It’s the perfect combo: stories and songs inside, followed by sandcastles outside.
All the branches across the Ipswich Libraries network offer a huge range of early literacy programs such as Baby Rhyme Time, Toddler Time and Story Time sessions to help build language skills from day one. Ipswich Libraries also have a few “out of the box” sessions, such as Books and Blocks and Messy Play Time, which mix movement, sensory exploration and storytelling. They also take the magic beyond the library walls, with storytime sessions in parks, Bunnings stores, and even at local pools through the Dive Into Books program – perfect for those hot Ipswich days. For children who love tinkering and exploring, STEAM ON: All Things Tech sessions introduce science, technology, engineering, art and music through robots, digital play and creative challenges.
Ipswich has taken the library experience to a whole new level with Australia’s only public library dedicated entirely to children aged 0–12. Located in the Nicholas Street Precinct, the Ipswich Children’s Library is an incredible space filled with books, interactive tech, craft activities and even two life-sized Plesiosaurs hanging from the ceiling. It’s honestly worth a visit even if you don’t live nearby.
Brisbane City Council Libraries have something for every age and stage, beginning with the First 5 Forever Baby Rhyme Time, Toddler Time and Storytime programs for babies and toddlers. They also offer family friendly opportunities such as Make and Create Afternoons, where children can drop in for art and craft sessions that blend science, technology and creativity. Robotics has a large focus here too, with after school and weekend sessions focused on robot building and basic coding and robotics.
One standout is their Annual Reading Challenge, held each July and August. Children can join the Gold Star program (6–12 yrs) or Little Stars (0–5 yrs) and work towards receiving a certificate and medallion.
If you are looking for some libraries to explore in Brisbane, two branches really stand out for families:
Garden City Library has a magical Secret Garden City theme, complete with murals of birds and butterflies, interactive floor projections (think lava flows and space scenes), and digital tabletop games.
Carindale Library has a fun children’s entryway, a Duplo wall, marble maze, interactive floor, craft zone and cosy reading corners – perfect for whiling away a rainy afternoon.
Libraries today are spaces where children can play, imagine, build, code, craft, and connect – and where parents can find community too. Whether you’re borrowing toys on the Gold Coast, exploring the wonder of Ipswich’s Children’s Library, or joining a coding session in Brisbane, there’s a hidden gem waiting for you. So next time you’re looking for something fun (and free!) to do, head to your local library. You might just discover your family’s new favourite hangout spot.
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There is something magical about creek days with little ones: bare feet in cool water, sandy toes, the sound of gentle trickling streams, and endless opportunities for simple, unplugged fun. The Gold Coast is best known for its beautiful beaches, but you can discover some incredible rockpools and creeks perfect for toddlers and young children. Here are five family-friendly spots where little feet can paddle safely, explore nature, and make a splash.
Best for: A classic hinterland swimming adventure with shallow spots for toddlers and deeper pools for older children.
Just a 15–20 minute drive inland from Currumbin Beach, this natural swimming spot is surrounded by lush greenery. It’s a local favourite for good reason.
There are BBQs, picnic tables, grassy areas and toilets, making it easy to settle in for a relaxed family day. Keep in mind that it is extremely popular on warm weekends and you will need to arrive early to get a car park!
Best for: A peaceful, easy-access creek spot perfect for younger children.
Just down the road from the Currumbin Rock Pools, Long Tan Park is a lovely, often quieter alternative for families.
It’s a brilliant spot for families with toddlers or preschoolers who want a gentle, nature-filled adventure without the hustle and bustle.
Best for: Calm, sheltered creek paddling just a short walk from the café strip.
Instead of the busy Pirate Park, Palm Beach access point to Currumbin Creek, head a little further down the road to Apex Park. Here you get easy access to Currumbin Creek for a peaceful, shady paddling experience.
Best for: A peaceful rainforest adventure with shallow natural pools.
At the very end of Currumbin Creek Road, you’ll find the Cougal Cascades walking track. This is a short, pram-friendly path through beautiful rainforest that leads to:
There are no cafes or playgrounds here, so pack snacks, towels and enjoy the serenity. It’s a lovely spot for a half-day nature escape.
Best for: Creekside paddling with a city-meets-nature vibe.
Looking for something closer to home? Tucked away just a few blocks from the bustle of Surfers Paradise, Budds Beach feels like a hidden gem.
This is a brilliant choice for families who want easy access, a quick paddle, and facilities close by without trekking too far inland.
Rockpools and creeks offer something beaches sometimes can’t: calm, clear water, natural shade, and a slower pace that suits young families perfectly. However, it is very important to ensure your day at the creek is safe and enjoyable. Supervise children closely – even shallow water can have slippery rocks or changing currents. The creeks are also home to a variety of wildlife, so always check before entering the water and don’t swim if you can’t see the bottom. Bring water shoes to help children with firm footing while exploring. Also, after heavy rain the creeks can flow faster than usual and have poor water quality. Check Council water quality reporting for updates on creek closures.
Whether it’s a rainforest dip at Cougal Cascades, a lazy paddle at Currumbin Creek, or a quiet splash at Long Tan Park, the Gold Coast has a creek adventure for every kind of family day out. So pack the towels and go exploring! These are the kinds of days little feet (and big hearts) remember.
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Halloween is just around the corner — and for our Little Scholars, it’s one of the most magical times of the year! From spooky ghosts to silly pumpkins and brave superheroes, dressing up is a chance for children to explore creativity, pretend play, and imagination.
At Little Scholars, we love seeing our children light up when they put on their costumes. But we also know that sometimes, time (and the budget!) can get away from us.
If you’re wondering, “What Halloween costume can I make at the last minute?” — don’t worry. We’ve got you covered! Here are some of our favorite easy, affordable, and crowd-pleasing Halloween costume ideas for kids, inspired by what we’ve seen our Little Scholars wear over the years.
You can never go wrong with a classic ghost costume — it’s timeless, simple, and spooky in all the right ways.
What you’ll need:
How to make it:
Cut out eye holes and pop the sheet over your child’s head. You can cut the bottom in fun jagged edges or keep it simple.
Quick tips:
It’s one of the easiest last-minute Halloween costumes for kids, and it never fails to impress!
If you’re looking for something with a bit more character, Frankenstein is a Halloween favorite that’s easy to recreate at home.
Here’s how to make your own Frankenstein costume:
💡 Variation: Got leftover fabric or craft supplies? Turn it into a colorful DIY monster costume with mismatched patches, horns, and fuzzy details — a great twist on the Frankenstein look!
If you’re running short on time, you can still find budget-friendly Halloween costumes at local stores like Kmart — both for under $15!
These store-bought options are quick, affordable, and stress-free — perfect for parents looking for last-minute Halloween ideas.
💡 Variation: Got leftover fabric or craft supplies? Turn it into a colorful DIY monster costume with mismatched patches, horns, and fuzzy details — a great twist on the Frankenstein look!
A Halloween favourite that never gets old!
If you’re short on time (or don’t want to splurge), grab a black t-shirt and a tutu for a quick DIY witch look. Add some green face paint and a broom made from a stick and paper streamers — and you’re done!
For an easy store-bought option, Kmart’s Witch Costume is both affordable and adorable. Pair it with sneakers or boots, and your child will be ready for a day of spooky fun.
If your child already knows exactly who they want to be, don’t stress!
Your local retailers have plenty of ready-to-go costumes featuring favourites like Batman, Spider-Man, Darth Vader, Bluey, firefighters, princesses, and more.
Check out Kmart, Big W, Target, or Spotlight for affordable options that fit most budgets and ages.
And if all else fails — pull out your favourite Book Week costume! It’s a great way to reuse and recycle outfits your little one already loves.
We’re celebrating Halloween with a night full of fun at Little Scholars Ormeau 2 on Friday, 31 October!
Expect:
Whether you’re a Little Scholars family or part of the local Ormeau community, everyone’s invited — so grab your costume and come join the fun!
Halloween doesn’t have to be expensive or complicated. With a little creativity — and a few household items — you can create fun, memorable costumes your kids will absolutely love.
At Little Scholars, we believe Halloween is all about imagination, joy, and making memories together. So grab a sheet, some face paint, and a dash of creativity — your perfect costume is closer than you think!
A brighter future for families is on the way. Starting 5 January 2026, the child care subsidy 2026 changes will introduce the new 3 Day Guarantee, giving CCS eligible families access to three full days (36 hours) of subsidised childcare per week – no matter how many hours you work or study.
At Little Scholars, we know how important affordable, flexible care is for families, and we’re here to help you understand what these changes mean for you.
The 3 Day Guarantee is part of upcoming changes to the Child Care Subsidy (CCS). It removes the strict work and study requirements previously tied to accessing subsidised hours of care according to the Department of Education.
Here’s what families can expect from 2026:
This means more affordable care, more flexibility, and more opportunities for your child to thrive in early learning.
Not sure how much Child Care Subsidy you might be entitled to? Use our online Child Care Subsidy Calculator.
For many families, these changes will mean thousands of dollars in savings each year. But beyond the financial relief, it means every child has the opportunity to access quality early education – the foundation for lifelong learning, confidence, and wellbeing.
With your three guaranteed days of subsidised care, your child will experience the very best in early education across our purpose-built campuses.
Children connect with the natural world through exploration and play.
Bush, Beach, and Pram-kinder programs, music, dance, sport, soccer, swimming, gardening and more.
Experienced teachers deliver our nationally recognised Kindergarten program.
At Little Scholars, children engage with STEM learning (science, technology, engineering, and mathematics) through hands-on, play-based experiences. Alongside our brand-new, Australian-first, WonderNest Virtual Reality program, opening new worlds of discovery and learning for kindergarten children in 2026.
Every child is more than just a number, they are part of our family. We provide a safe, nurturing, and supportive environment where children feel valued, celebrated, and encouraged to be themselves.
Our educators take the time to understand each child’s unique personality, interests, and learning style. This personalised approach to childcare ensures that every child feels a sense of belonging while developing confidence and independence.
Families choose Little Scholars because we combine high-quality early learning programs with a genuine family-first philosophy. From the moment you step into our campuses, you’ll see children thriving in a space that feels like home – where safety, wellbeing, and happiness come first.
With the 3 Day Guarantee set to launch in 2026, we anticipate an incredible level of interest and demand across our campuses. If you are a current family and your current CCS entitlement is less than 72 hours per fortnight, please speak with your Campus Manager to learn more about the 3 Day Guarantee and how to optimise your Child Care Subsidy.
If you are looking to enrol your child, you can book a tour at your local Little Scholars Campus or chat with our enrolments team on 1300 896 139 to see how your family could benefit from the CCS changes.
So you’ve decided to send your child to early learning – how exciting!
For first-time parents, preparing for this new chapter involves more than just packing a backpack, it means understanding key essentials like the Child Care Subsidy (CCS). Navigating the CCS can seem daunting, but fear not! We’ve written a comprehensive guide to help demystify the process to help you understand how to maximise this support for your family’s benefit.
Here in this CCS explainer, we will lay out everything you need to know about and to apply for CCS, making it easier for you to support your child’s educational adventure.
Did you know you can apply for the Child Care Subsidy (CCS) before you enrol your child in early learning?
Wait, what’s CCS? The Child Care subsidy is assistance to help families with the cost of childcare. Your child’s day in early learning is payable by a daily fee charged by the centre. The government may cover some of this fee, depending on your individual circumstances. This is what is referred to as the ‘subsidy’.
You may be eligible for the Child Care Subsidy if you meet a number of factors. The Child Care Subsidy (CCS) changed in July 2024 for families earning under $533,280. The percentage of CCS will vary depending on your family’s income, and the income limit to receive the maximum allowed CCS will increase as well. For families whose income is up to $83,280, you could receive up to 90% from the CCS toward your child’s daily fee.
If you have two or more children in care, subsequent children are eligible for a higher subsidy than the first child. For families who earn a total income of up to $141,321, those children will receive 95% from CCS off your daily fee.
There are several requirements to qualify for the Child Care Subsidy. You may qualify if:
• You or your partner care for the child a minimum of two nights / fortnight
• You or your partner are responsible for childcare fees
• The child meets immunisation requirements
• You use an approved child care service like Little Scholars!
Once you’re ready for your child to go into early learning, you can apply for CCS!
The CCS works on three factors:
• Your total combined family income
• The service type. This can be long day care, or outside-hours care such as vacation care
• How much ‘work-related’ activity you and your partner undertake each fortnight This includes paid work, volunteering, study and other activities as determined by education.gov.au. Job hunting, studying, starting a new business, volunteering and travel time – among others – are all eligible activities that will allow you to claim subsidised hours of care.
Our website has a handy calculator you can use to get an idea of how much CCS you’ll receive.
Apply for CCS via your MyGov Account, which is linked to Centrelink.
We recommend you do this as soon as you know when you might be sending your little one into early education and care, so it’s all set up and ready to go for your child’s first day. Don’t necessarily wait until you’ve enrolled with an early learning campus, because the entire process may take between four and six weeks, and if it’s not set up when you begin care, you may be paying full fees until it’s all complete.
Once your spot is booked in, confirm your Complying Written Agreement (CWA). When a CWA enrolment notice is created by the campus manager, there are two steps that need to be completed by the family:
1. You will be notified by email that the CWA is ready for you to agree to. A reminder will be sent via email should you not sign within 48 hours
2. Confirm your child’s government enrolment via MyGov. If you do not agree to the government enrolment, CCS cannot be paid.
Finally, we know change can be scary, overwhelming or confusing, as much for our parents as our little ones. We’re here for you from the day you book your tour to the day your child finishes their last day of kindergarten. We can absolutely help you navigate the CCS and other documents you need to help your child become a little scholars. Reach out to your campus manager, admin or any of the leadership team for guidance or further questions.
Becoming a foster parent is not all rainbows and butterflies, it is a wholehearted decision which requires dedication and effort. It is a commitment that you choose and one that can helps provide a safe and caring environment for children and young people in our community. As a foster parent there are incredible opportunities presented in so many different forms, however, it is vital you have an insight into what is involved in becoming a foster parent so that you feel totally equipped and prepared for your journey.
What we are going to share with you is all based from personal experiences from our regional manager, Skye Ible, and we know many of you who are looking to foster a child or are in the process currently will be able to relate to Skye’s experiences entirely.
If you are not aware, becoming a foster parent is a lengthy and complex process, but if you are aware of that before going into your application, it will take away the overwhelming feelings of wow, this is a lot to take in. Do not let the complex application haunt you, we have been told that once you find the right organisation that fits right with you, you will have endless support from the agency, and this will impact your fostering experience in a tremendously positive way.
It is helpful you know there are expectations that the agency will require of you when you start your application. You will be asked to attend an initial training – these are normally at night and then at nigh- time you are given workbooks to complete in the comfort of your home. There are also safety checklists you need to complete of your home environment, as well as making the necessary changes if needed. The support workers will visit your home for an assessment, and it is vital you are prepared to talk about everything from throughout your life which entails good and bad from childhood until present. It is super important to go through this assessment period as the agencies need to know if the children are going into a safe and supportive environment, and if you have children of your own or a partner, they will always assess whether your child can handle the fostering of other children.
The foster agency will always ask for at least two references to contact and if you are approved, they will call within 24 hours offering you a child. One piece of advice from talking with our own foster parent is, to be prepared and compile a list of questions ready to talk through with your support person just so you can decide if the child is a suitable match for your family. Do not be afraid to speak up if the placement isn’t working as it is about the foster child’s needs as well as your own, and most of the time there will always be another family out there suited to this child.
During the journey of being a new foster parent, keep in mind that some children crave love and attention but don’t always know how to ask for it. Some children may say ‘ I love you’ or call you ‘mum or dad’ within a few months and some might not feel comfortable letting another person in. All you can do is remind yourself that this child has gone through more than imaginable, and all you can do is open up your hearts and home to show them that they are loved and safe. If you have a strong family unit and strong support system in place, this will help you get through any hick ups that come up along the way.
Whether you are a single person, married, same sex or dating you are eligible to foster a child but remember you must have a spare room in your home to allow for privacy for the child, and everyone must attend a training session as a requirement of being a foster parent. Life is to be lived to the fullest and knowing that a child’s life can be lived to their fullest with another person’s love, devotion and care is nothing short of extraordinary, so we truly commend all the amazing families who do everything in their will to make sure these children are given a second chance at life.
Thank you so much to Skye for sharing such personal and incredible insights with us, you are an inspiration to us all. Every child deserves a chance at a better life.
If you want to find out more about becoming a foster parent within Queensland, please refer to the resources shared with us below.
3 steps to telling the difference.
Everywhere you look these days there seems to be more and more ‘free’ foods. Dairy free, gluten free, egg free, nut free… So, it is any wonder that parents are considering food as the culprit if their child has developed unusual symptoms or behaviours.
When considering food as a potential cause, it is important to first understand the difference between a food allergy and a food intolerance.
A food allergy is when your immune system has a strong overreaction to that food. The reaction can cause things like swelling in the face, lips and eyes, hives, tummy pain, vomiting and in some cases, it can lead to difficulty breathing and swelling of the throat. In babies, other symptoms (but uncommon) include reflux, colic, diarrhoea and eczema
A food intolerance on the other hand doesn’t involve the immune system so the symptoms tend to be a little different. Firstly, the reactions can take days to appear after repeatedly eating certain foods. This delay can make it very difficult to find what is causing it. It is a bit like how some people will experience side effects from a medication and others don’t. To make things more confusing, the reactions can be similar to food allergies.
So what do you do if you suspect a food allergy or intolerance:
There is no shortcut or hack unfortunately when it comes to diagnosing food intolerances. Even a blood test can’t find the answer. Any tests you see advertised that say they can, will give you what is known as ‘false positives’. It will tell you have food intolerances that don’t exist. If there was a reliable test then allergy clinics run by medical doctors would offer them. But they don’t.
Now that you have the facts, I have a final word of caution. Don’t eliminate foods or food groups randomly in the hope of finding the culprit. This scattergun approach can do more harm than good and you could be wasting a lot of precious time looking in the wrong places. Unfortunately, we see this all too much in our clinic and it makes me so sad to see mums and dads at the end of their tether and children becoming more and more cautious and confused about food. The knowledge and experience of the right health professional can get you get to an answer quicker and with less disruption to family mealtimes, and as a parent, that’s gold dust!
Written by: Anna D’Arcy, Accredited Practising Dietitian at My Nutrition Clinic. Anna is a mum to two children under 10 years and has 20 years of experience working as a dietitian and helping families reach their health potential.
Little Scholars’ Government Approved Kindergarten Program is the perfect way to help your child prepare for prep and everything that transition entails. As a parent, you have probably given considerable thought to where to send your child once they’re ready to take that next step. Consulting primary school rankings is one way that you can arm yourself with the information required to do the very best by your daughter or son.
Checking primary school rankings is only one part of the puzzle when it comes to choosing educational options. You may also want to consider the following:
Little Scholars would recommend getting as much information as you can as early in the process as possible. Booking a tour to see the school and the learning in action will allow you the opportunity to truly get a feel for the culture of the place.
With that in mind, comparing primary school rankings can be a good way to gauge how the school approaches literacy and numeracy, as well as the access that it has to educational resources.
Here are the primary school rankings for educational establishments that surround our seven centres. Using this information as part of your decision, in consultation with your Little Scholars teachers, could help you make the choice that will shape your child’s educational journey.
Our George Street campus is located right in the heart of the city, providing easy access to Roma Street Transit Centre and the George Street Bus Depot. It’s only 300 metres away from the Queen Street Mall and it’s very close to some of Brisbane’s best schools.
Primary School Rankings as determined by state overall scores:
The gorgeous Little Scholars School of Early Learning Campus in Ashmore is firmly ensconced in the fabulous surrounding bush environment. This brand new centre boasts state of the art facilities presented in a calming, relaxing design that showcases the great work that goes on there.
Primary School Rankings for nearby schools:
Huge learning spaces and the promise of before and after school care (including vacation care) make our Little Scholars Deception Bay campus an attractive option for many families. There are a number of great schools nearby that you may be interested in for your son or daughter’s prep years (and beyond).
Primary School Rankings for nearby schools:
The Little Scholars School of Early Learning in Nerang is the newest member of the Little Scholars educational family. Their vision for the lucky students who attend is to arm them as much as possible with the skills they need to get ahead in today’s modern world; a great place for preparation for primary school! \
Primary School Rankings for nearby schools:
The Little Scholars School of Early Learning in Redland Bay is the glittering jewel in the crown of bayside life for local families. This centre provides state of the art educational programs, specialised teaching and plentiful resources to the students.
Primary School Rankings for nearby schools:
The picturesque Stapylton campus of Little Scholars has been awarded a 6 star Eco Estate rating. The good works of the staff have ensured that attendees of Little Scholars are primed and ready to support their environment in the years to come.
Primary School Rankings for nearby schools:
The Yatala campus of Little Scholars School of Early Learning offers premium educational opportunities in an expansive, responsive setting. The indoor / outdoor program takes advantage of the space and incredible design on offer to students.
Primary School Rankings for nearby schools:
Have further questions regarding primary school rankings and preparing your child for school? Get in contact with Little Scholars to discuss how to best move your child from childcare to kindergarten to prep. It doesn’t have to be a scary time – you just need the right support.
An easy transition from kindy to prep is crucial for your child’s well-being.
We can help your child make this big step. Our kindy program goes beyond academic preparation. We take your child’s well-being seriously, talk to us now.
Parents spend countless hours trying to make sure their kids are behaving, eating their dinner, and doing their homework. But how often do we take the time to focus on how to boost your child’s confidence?
Yes, most kids are far more interested in the eating rather than the preparing of foods, but you’ll be surprised by how much one experience can turn things around. One morning we asked our son to be the “assistant chef” when we were preparing blueberry pancakes. Many mornings later, he now often insists on being involved in the kitchen, and he’s always incredibly proud of the end product.
Like adults, kids want to be taken seriously. When they get the sense they’re being mocked (or laughed at, to their face), their instinct is to get angry, shut down, and not share more ideas for fear of more of the same treatment. After all, kids naturally see the world through a different lens than we do. You might be surprised what you hear once you show your child that you’re listening and that you take their ideas seriously.
My 6-year-old expressed a legitimate interest in football, so I invited him to come with me to a friend’s Super Bowl party. No other children were coming, and I made him aware of that. He hesitated for a moment, but then agreed to join me. At the party, it was clear he wasn’t completely comfortable and was unsure how to act, especially since he only knew me and the host. But after a while, he was talking about “Star Wars” and lounging on the couch like one of the guys. The only way to establish a level of comfort is to first experience discomfort.
While I don’t believe in forcing your own personal interests or hobbies on your children, playing an instrument yields too many positive results for it to be ignored. Once they’ve reached an age where they’re dextrally and mentally capable, learning to play an instrument not only relieves stress (yes, kids have stress, too) but it can also boost self-esteem in a major way.
Yes, most kids are far more interested in the eating rather than the preparing of foods, but you’ll be surprised by how much one experience can turn things around. One morning we asked our son to be the “assistant chef” when we were preparing blueberry pancakes. Many mornings later, he now often insists on being involved in the kitchen, and he’s always incredibly proud of the end product
I’m not talking about giving them a gold star every time they eat a carrot. I’m not an “every kid gets a trophy” believer. But in my experience, children react favorably to receiving praise for going above and beyond—naturally, anyone does. However, it’s even more important to show children that extra effort will yield benefits in order to instill the idea within them that they’re capable of greatness and that hard work pays dividends.
Very little empowers a child more than having them believe they know something you don’t. A beginner’s card trick, a scale on the piano, or anything that positions them as the subject matter expert will work. Encourage them to share their knowledge (without bragging) with you and others. Odds are they’ll be brimming with confidence with their head held high.
I’ve found that most people don’t think they’re creative because they were never encouraged to be. I once overheard my wife reading to my son, and she stopped turning the pages and simply asked him, “What do you think should happen next?” His eyes lit up. Simple questions like this are what awaken a part of the brain that might otherwise sit dormant.
This one seems intuitive, but often gets overlooked. Whether we know it or not, we’re our child’s most pronounced role model. So, how can we expect our kids to have confidence when we’re the ones they look up to and we don’t even have it?
If you have a 7-year-old who recently started throwing a fit every time you make eye contact with her, odds are it’s for a reason. The easy, instinctive thing to do is to punish her and be done with it. The more forward-thinking approach also includes sitting down afterward to talk and figuring out the exact reason for the anger (or what I like to call “The Danny Tanner Method,” you know, from “Full House”?). It lets them know you’ll actually listen to them, which provides a certain stability within a household that children need in order to feel secure.
While success is pretty easy to deal with, learning to cope with failure is no easy task, especially when you’re not used to it. And in order to get used to it, you simply have to experience it, time and time again. It doesn’t come naturally to me, but I let my kids fail sometimes—while trying to build Legos or attempting to ride a bike without training wheels. It may anger them at first, but as Ann Landers said, “It’s not what you do for your children, but what you have taught them to do for themselves that will make them successful human beings.”
Wondering how Little Scholars can help boost your child’s confidence? Contact us today for more information.
Wondering how Little Scholars can help boost your child’s confidence? Contact us today for more information.
Let us hold your hand and help looking for a child care centre. Leave your details with us and we’ll be in contact to arrange a time for a ‘Campus Tour’ and we will answer any questions you might have!
Let us hold your hand and help looking for a child care centre. Leave your details with us and we’ll be in contact to arrange a time for a ‘Campus Tour’ and we will answer any questions you might have!
